If you have never experienced the unconditional love of a pet, you might not understand why grieving the loss is so hard.
For lots of pet owners their pets are closer to them than family members.
They love you on good and bad days.
They don’t judge or criticize they just love.
So even if you don’t get it, you just need to know they need your support not your judgment.
With that in mind here are 13 things you should never say to someone who has lost a pet.
13 Things You Should Never Say To Someone Who Has Lost A Pet
Whatever You Do Don’t Say This!
1“It was just a pet. It’s not like it was a person.” – This makes it sound like their pain isn’t valid.
2 “At least it wasn’t your kid.” – For lots of people they are.
3 “Everything happens for a reason.” – This makes it sound like you are saying it is ok their pet died.
4 “Now you can travel more.” – When someone has lost a pet the last thing they are thinking about is taking a trip.
5 “You’ll feel better in time” –Basically you just told them that if they are in pain, they should just get over it.
6 “So, when are you getting another one?” or “Now you can get a new pet!” – Pets are not replaceable. You can’t just swap in a new one and make someone feel better.
7 “He/She is in a better place.” – When you say this, you are saying their pet is better off dead. At least that’s how it can easily be interpreted.
8 “How are you doing?” – Not everyone is ready to talk about their feelings after losing a pet. Assume the person is not OK.
9 “[It] was really old/sick so it’s probably for the best.” – You just told them their pet is better off dead.
10 “Be grateful for the time you had together.” – This is not the time for gratitude. The person needs to feel sad about their pet being gone. This is part of grieving.
11 “At least they aren’t suffering anymore.” – This implies that because the pet is no longer suffering the person’s pain should be less.
12 “I know how you feel.” – The intention is to let them know they aren’t alone. However, this is interpreted as self-centered and uncaring. Focus on them.
13 Things You Should Never Say To Someone Who Has Lost A Pet
